Thursday, December 4, 2008

What is Friendship?

Friendship is a term used to denote co-operative and supportive behavior between two or more people. In this sense, the term connotes a relationship which involves mutual knowledge, esteem, and affection and respect along with a degree of rendering service to friends in times of need or crisis.

Friends will welcome each other's company and exhibit loyalty towards each other, often to the point of altruism. Their tastes will usually be similar and may converge, and they will share enjoyable activities. They will also engage in mutually helping behavior, such as exchange of advice and the sharing of hardship. A friend is someone who may often demonstrate reciprocating and reflective behaviors. Yet for many, friendship is nothing more than the trust that someone or something will not harm them.

Value that is found in friendships is often the result of a friend demonstrating the following on a consistent basis:

  • the tendency to desire what is best for the other,
  • sympathy and empathy,
  • honesty, perhaps in situations where it may be difficult for others to speak the truth, especially in terms of pointing out the perceived faults of one's counterpart
  • mutual understanding.
Source: Wikipedia

2 comments:

Toasty said...

Good article, Birgitta. There is really nothing like a good friend, and several are even better. And when your life partner is your best friend, there's nothing better than that.

Last year I wrote a story about a friendship between a big snow monkey (here in Hokkaido) and an elderly man and his wife. If you'd like to read it, you can find it at www.theoldmanandthemonkey.synthasite.com. I think you'll enjoy it

Keep bloggin'!

Birgitta said...

Thank you Toasty: I'll have a look at it. :)